why do women love married males inspite of being aware of thier marital status?

think single women love married men for several reasons:

(1) Women are inherently competitive with each other and don't want to see each other succeed. By "conquering" a married man...they feel they have won. (Which in reality we all know that conquering a married guy is about as challenging as learning to open a drawer). A great book was written on this called "Tripping the Prom Queen" in which the author surmises that NO woman wants to see another woman succeed....ALL women secretely want ALL other women to fail.

(2) Because of this competitiveness, some (not all...) single women look at married women and think "I'm better than her....why can't I have him?" Then they set about getting him.

(3) (And I think the most obvious)....if the guy already got married once, then he is more likely to marry again...therefore the single woman's chance of getting together with someone who wants to get married increases.

Its all backward logic and nothing that I agree with...and I don't think that any of this happens on a conscious level. But, when you peel back the layers and ask yourself why single women love married men....I believe the aforementioned to be at least the beginnings of an explaination.

What Zodiac Signs tell about You and Your Partners?

Zodiac signs are interesting and I am curious if it is relevant and how they fit in relationships. When I got interested in it, I found that my best friends always had a particular zodiac sign, and the people with whom I am not comfortable had some other zodiac sign (Do not ask me what is it).

Studying about the characteristics of a Zodiac Sign and observing individual characters in the real life provides me a considerable challange to my curious mind. Sometime, the zodiac signs work and on other occasions, it does not. Whatever the case, I can only say it is just curious to see the theory of zodiac signs and applying the practical side of it in the real life.

Here are the typical characteristics of all the 12 Zodiac signs for you. Which sign do you belong to?

VIRGO - The Perfectionist

Dominant in any relationships. Somewhat conservative. Always wants the last word in an argument. Worries often. Very smart. Dislikes noise and chaos. Eager and hardworking. Loyal and beautiful. Easy to talk to. Hard to please. Practical and very fussy. Often shy. Pessimistic.

SCORPIO - The Intense One

Very energetic and intelligent. Can be jealous and/or possessive. Intensive worker. Great kisser. Can become obsessive or secretive. Holds grudges. Attractive. Determined. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative and romantic. Can be self-centered at times. Passionate and Emotional.

LIBRA - The Harmonizer

Nice to everyone they meet, truly a people person. Can't make up their mind. Have own unique appeal. Creative, energetic, and very social. Prefers to be with a group rather than be alone. Peaceful and generous. Very loving and beautiful. Flirtatious. Give in too easily. Procrastinators. Very gullible.

ARIES - The Daredevil

Energetic. Adventurous and self-starter. Has self-confidence and enthusiasm. Loves a challenge. EXTREMELY impatient. Sometimes selfish. Short tempered (Easily provoked.) Lively, passionate, and sharp witty in nature. Outgoing. Pretty easily get bored. Egotistical. Courageous and assertive. Tends to be physical and athletic.

AQUARIUS - The Sweetheart

Optimistic and honest. A sweet personality in the zodiac. Very independent, discoverer. Friendly and loyal to friends. Can seem unemotional sometimes. Rebel. Very stubborn, but original and unique Attractive on the inside and out. Eccentric personality.

GEMINI - The Chatterbox

Smart and witty. Outgoing, very chatty. Lively, energetic. Adaptable but needs to express themselves. Argumentative and outspoken. Likes change. Versatile. Busy, sometimes nervous and tense. Gossips. May seem superficial or inconsistent, but is only changeable. Beautiful physically and mentally.

LEO - The Boss

Very organized. Need order in their lives - like being in control. Like boundaries. Tend to take over everything. Bossy. Like to help others. Social and outgoing. Extroverted. Generous, warm-hearted. Sensitive. Creative energy. Full of themselves. Loving. D oing the right thing is important to Leos. Attractive.

CANCER - The Protector

Moody, emotional. May be shy. Very loving and caring. Pretty/handsome. Excellent partners for life. Protective. Inventive and imaginative. Cautious. Touchy-feely kind of person. Needs love from others. Easily hurt, but sympathetic.

PISCES - The Dreamer

Generous, kind, and thoughtful. Very creative and imaginative. May become secretive and vague. Sensitive. Don't like details. Dreamy and unrealistic. Sympathetic and loving. Kind. Unselfish. Good kisser. Beautiful.

CAPRICORN - The Go-Getter

Patient and wise. Practical and rigid. Ambitious. Wants to be good-looking. Humorous and funny. Can be a bit shy and reserved. Often pessimists. Capricorns tend to act before they think and can be unfriendly y at times. Hold grudges. Like competition. Get what they want no matter what.

TAURUS - The Enduring One

Charming but aggressive. Warm-hearted. Strong, has endurance. Solid beings who are stable and secure in their ways. Does not like shortcuts. Take pride in their beauty. Patient and reliable. Make great friends and give good advice. Loving and kind. Express themselves emotionally. Prone to ferocious temper-tantrums. Determined. Very generous.

SAGITTARIUS - The Happy-Go-Lucky One

Good-natured optimist. Doesn't want to grow up. Indulges in self. Boastful. Likes luxuries and gambling. Social and outgoing. Doesn't like responsibilities. Often fantasizes. Sometimes impatient. Fun to be around with. Having lots of friends. Flirtatious. Doesn't like rules. Sometimes hypocritical. Dislikes being confined - tight spaces or even tight clothes. Doesn't like being doubted. Beautiful inside and out.

What women Want

Let me start by saying what this list is not: It isn’t a list of the obvious. Yes, we want you to have a job, a conscience and some degree of intelligence. We want you to be sane, drug and disease free. We want you to be emotionally stable and have a clue about commitment and faithfulness. These are things we want, but they should be a given and can usually be found with a bit of effort.

This, is a list of qualities which are actually fairly difficult to find all in one man. Qualities that will quickly turn you into the man of any woman’s dreams, if she has a chance to see them for herself. Obviously the list can be expounded upon, but I believe there are 5 things which all women want, and other things may vary. That’s not to say women won’t settle for something less…. we almost always have to, lest we be single forever. But if we had a choice, we would want these qualities in a man.

Passion

You don’t need to be Romeo, and you don’t need to bring us flowers every day – that’s romance, and while it’s related to the same subject, it is not synonymous with passion. Passion is how much you want us, and we want that to be a lot. We want you to kiss us and do all manner of naughty things in such a way that shows us how gorgeous, sexy and infinitely desirable you find us to be. If we don’t see passion in the bedroom, it’s unlikely we’re going to want to spend much time in there with you.

Quiet Confidence

Weakness is not a masculine trait, and it’s not something women find desirable, unless the woman is emotionally damaged. You’re the man, you’re supposed to be the leader, if only symbolically. Conversely, barking orders and being rude are equally off-putting. What we like most, is a confident man who doesn’t need to run around proving himself all the time. You should be able to lead, and do so primarily by example.

Bedroom skills

Don’t confuse this with passion – they go hand in hand, but are not the same thing. And don’t get bent out of shape about this one either. It's remarkably easy for men to have a good time in bed, you’re pretty much touch and go. Literally. We, on the other hand, require some skill and some effort. Also, we don’t really want to teach you, because that tends to ruin the mood, and that’s never fun. Fortunately for you, there are loads of internet sites and magazines dedicated to teaching you how to be naughty. Some even have photos. Go ahead and start Googling.

Selflessness

A man who does things for others without thinking of himself is a sexy, sexy thing. I’m also going to toss generosity and general helpfulness in here as well. No, not generous as in ‘honey would you buy me those earrings?’ Generous with your time and kindness, as in, stopping to help the little old lady onto the bus, or carry her groceries to her car, or even up to her flat. I do these things for people I do not know – there’s no reason a man can’t do the same. If you’re not made that way, you’re probably not made very well.

Patience

This is so incredibly important. I’m not saying you need to be Job here, but unless you’re involved with an alien female, you’re going to see some inexplicable drama at some point in your relationship. I’d explain, but I can’t imagine anyone reading this has never encountered a woman in a panicky, emotional fit about the state of her meatloaf or the color of the new wallpaper. We aren’t trying to freak you out, we’re just temporarily giving in to the hormones we battle with every day (if you only knew how crazy we could really be!) Also, I hate to say it, but this gets worse with age. Start practicing your patience now… you should be aiming for something that makes it look like you’re empathizing (not just listening!), when you're really just watching the game.

Deepika Padukone is a super model turned actress. She made her acting debut in a Kannada film titled ‘Aishwarya’ directed by Indrajit Lankesh co-starring Upendra. The was a success at the box-office and Deepika has received rave reviews for her screen presence. She makes her bollywood debut in Farah Khan’s Shah Rukh Khan starrer ‘Om Shanti Om‘. In this film she plays the role of a 70’s film star. Watch out for this hot model is going to make her big screen apperance on Nov 9th.

Here are some of the hot pictures of Deepika Padukone. She looks just stunning in these swim suit pictures.

Deepika Padukone, Ranbir Kapoor In Another Ad

Wednesday 12th of March 2008
Now that their relationship is out in the open, Ranbir Kapoor and Deepika Padukone seem to have become the most talked-about couple in the Hindi film industry overnight. And Imtiaz Ali of 'Jab We Met' fame will direct them in another Pepsi advertisement.

'There's nothing intriguing about it. It's an ad to be directed by Imtiaz Ali for Pepsi. Earlier, Deepika and I acted in an ad with Shah Rukh Khan for the same brand. Now it's just the two of us, and that should be fun. But what I really want to do is a full-length feature film with Imtiaz,' Ranbir told IANS.

Ranbir debuted with Sonam Kapoor in Sanjay Leela Bhansali's 'Saawariya'. Although the film didn't do well at the box office, Ranbir is inundated with offers. He is doing Yash Raj Films' 'Bachna Ae Haseenon' and Rajkumar Santoshi has signed him for his forthcoming romantic film.

Sadly, just after cementing their relationship during the long outdoor spell of 'Bachna Ae Haseenon' in Australia, Deepika, who had the privilege of working with Bollywood Badshah Shah Rukh in her very first film 'Om Shanti Om', had to leave for a long shooting schedule for Nikhil Advani's 'Chandni Chowk To China'.

Hollywood studio Warner Bros is co-producing the action thriller with Ramesh Sippy. Akshay Kumar features as the male lead.

Deepika returned to India this week and is all set to start filming the ad with Ranbir. Deepika will team up with Saif Ali Khan later this year. Saif will produce the movie to be directed by Imtiaz Ali.

However, Ranbir's first cousin Kareena Kapoor, who is dating Saif, is not a part of Saif's first production. Apparently, Ali insisted on Deepika.

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Emraan Hashmi is the big bookie at IPL?

Emraan Hashmi is the big bookie at IPL?

Actor Emraan Hashmi is getting too many calls and SMSes for tips. With the IPL having begun, people are calling up the actor to know which team to bet on. After all, Emraan does play a bookie in the film Jannat .

When we caught up with the guy recently, he told us, "I've started getting calls and SMS's from people asking if I'm taking in bets for the IPL matches. I think it's because I joked on a news channel saying that I've learnt so much about bookmaking that I'm going to start taking in bets now. People are asking me, Bhai, kya odds hai? "